ABUSE- TRENDY INSULT OR INSULTING TREND

What you have perceived from the movies like isqiya, peepli live, ye salli zindagi, omkara, kaminey.... Apart from being the flawless pieces of art and great generator of Indian type of fun with enthusiasm, they are the biggest examples as how you can use slags in a conversational manner. From every desi gaali to english types stylish abuse, they have everything which today's youth enjoy.

Namaskar , Namaste , Salaam , Aadaab had became outdated and the conversation begins with the most popular word starting with f......... facebook ,although the word you thought is second most popular and the most common salutation used to greet friends.

As every field here also girls are on the front foot , puking each and every type of bad words from reverse to extreme condition irrespective of the fact to whom they are talking to except their parents (since girls are very caring for their parents , i think more than boys) otherwise they can abuse anyone from a stranger to their boyfriends, classmate to their teachers. Although the last person I mentioned before are not intentionally prized with those mischievous words but somehow openly or between the friends there is nobody left who is not abused one time or the other.. and its a bitter truth.

If girls are on the front foot that doesn't mean that boys are lagging behind in this list too. Perhaps they are the most deserving competitor of the girls. They look out for more advanced version of each and every "modern salutation".Most of the boys have awesome vocab , but sadly 90% out of this are slags.

Earlier people used to abuse in a very humble manner.. Remember the scene from Sholay where Jai is shouting "Basanti en kutto ke samne mat nachana" or "kutte mai tera khoon pee jaunga", you only decide , isn't it sweet? how generous na!!!!

What i mean to say is that its not like that people don't use to abuse before... they do abuse but in a very different way. Years back people used to do ample comparision of humans with various animals , most wanted were dogs and donkeys, but now the vulgarity of modern abuse is related to women which is totally unacceptable to the ears of wide range of people.... (i am talking about the oldies)

Gen Y gushes out these words out of excitement , aggression or hurry but can you... yes you ... can you justify this co-relation of speech and mood.

Well this is a endless topic as how to mind the speeches of upcoming future but what i want to say is that please guys do watch whom you are abusing to... if its your friend its ok... I can't help it but if its somebody elder than you then remember one thing as you are doing to him... what if his children abuse your father or your elders?????

DO BEFORE YOU DIE

The time in which we took birth was predefined and decided and the moment when we will end up our journey is also decided but unfortunately we don't know when this is going to reach the destination or going towards termination, we even don't have the clue. so enjoy this short life because how death is going to approach us , we can't imagine also.

just think , people dying in any train accident or bus accident... all from different zones, families, background, caste but since their timings of colliding with the death stone is same, they got aggregated at one place or situation and died. Before a day or two, 9 boys, seated on the top of the train while returning from the recruitment fair, suffered loss of life when they collided with a low over bridge. all of them were from different backdrops and started their life at different moments but sadly they all ended it together.Many people voluntarily end their lives and commit suicide just because they are pissed up of their personal and social life but that is not the valid reason to reject and insult the humble gift of god.

we humans are the luckiest on this earth as we have brain to think and react. you never know what you are going to be in your next incarnation, may be a dog or a cat or just an ant, who can't enjoy their lives as we humans can. start facing your problems positively an if you can't live for yourself then live for others, for the one who love you, cares about you because

"JEENA ISI KA NAAM HAI"

You never know which moment can bring last breath for you, so if you have some incomplete work left for now or some other day then this is the time to do it.

Go and get all the happiness you want to have and speak up whatever you couldn't as this time is irreversible and in future you may not get time to fulfill your wishes.Live out each and every moment with your near and dear ones before you realize that its too late for regretting too.

Reach out your each and every ambition and try to find out smiles in sorrows.

Help yourself and help others too . Be an optimist and set examples for others that how to be a lively human being.

Don't let anyone harm you or control you....don't give chance to anyone to overshadow your emotions and to become your weakness. Do what you feel and stop being dependent on others for any mental or emotional support..

At the last don't forget that nothing is going to stop after your decay, this world was, is and will continue to work after you too... then why we shouldn't we live the life till the end...

Gandhi said "DO OR DIE"

but its now me saying "DO BEFORE YOU DIE"

this post is dedicated to my all those friends who are in big confusion as what to do in life and how to do it.....