LONG WAY TO GO
Gone were the days when long distance relationships go on very easily. Although the communication media between the love birds were birds themselves or more precisely letters and chits but today even after having so many mediums and methods to reach your loved ones , long distance relationships doesn’t seems to work for long. Out of sight; out of mind is the theme which today’s youngsters are applying on their relations.
It’s the fact that physical presence of anyone could make more impact than the virtual one but when it comes to real passion of love and charm even virtual presence is felt physically and emotionally.
The life schedule of gen x is so hectic that they need apt space and freedom even from their counterparts. Between these spaces and void many people marks their presence in their lives and if chances prevailed on their heart and mind too. This could be regarded as a speed breaker in the road of relation. If your wheeler is in speed (means if it is full of transparency and trust), it will easily tolerate this jerk but if it is in already in slow motion (means if it is lacking a sense of security and loyalty) then it may even stop.
What really a long distance relationship demands is mutual understanding, trust, unlimited love… and most important of all SPACE. What generally leads to end of the relationship is the lack of quality time they would have spent with each other if they were near. Not giving enough attention and care to the loyal partner hurts their sentiments and gives him/her the strong reason to look for a new emotional support from the opposite sex and hence the third person enters in a relationship of two and the twist arrives with him/her, when the same loyal partner either start cheating the other one or just ditch them ruthlessly. Here comes the sad end to a sweet relationship due to lack of patience, space and support.
What could be suggested to them, no counselor can tell. If one really wants to kill the distance in a long distance relationship then he /she or both the person should create the symphony of love, emotions, trust with a pinch of understanding … and then just wait and watch how life turns into a magical series.